Dear John,

You see, the thing is this, I've  been thinking, I want to be in a relationship that is financially balanced. I want to be with someone I can trust, someone that discloses their innermost secrets with me openly and without having to ask. I want the confidence in knowing that when I spend time on the phone with someone, I am the most important person to them at that moment, and when we are off the phone my problems are at the forefront.

I have met someone new, I am as special to them as they are to me, And I know I can rely on them just as much without financial commitment as when I do spend money with them.